Last week, I had the joy of teaching a group of students who are about to graduate from an intensive, 9 month discipleship experience called OneLife. The program director invited me to help these students transition, and one of his hopes was that the students leave with confidence about their next steps (even in the unknown).
We covered a lot of ground in my few days with them, but the most important thing I offered went beyond tips for transitions or practical advice on money management (crucial as these are).
If we want to help our students thrive in the transition, they need deep and timely reminders of God’s character and goodness. Dwelling on who God is (the same God yesterday, today and forever) and who we are because of him is what grounds us in life’s transitions.
This is the most important gift we can give.
At OneLife, we took time to reflect on the attributes of God as well as on our identity in Christ. I led the students through an activity that invited them to consider how they image God. Without even realizing it, our picture of God may be far from who he describes himself to be and who he reveals himself as in the person of Jesus.
For many years, I pictured God as a lightning-bold-throwing God, ready to reprimand me if I stepped out of line. I’ve also imaged him as a “carrot-dangling” God — a deity who tantalizes me with good gifts, but then quickly takes them away. I needed a new image.
I invited the students to select actual images (printed on card stock) that connected with them. I also asked them to reflect, journal and free write, using these two downloadable documents (below) as prompts.
Feel free to give these “gifts” to your students.
We cannot remove the chaos of transitional times, but we can offer our students a firm place to plant their feet.
We can remind them of a constant God for every dynamic time.
Be encouraged today! Erica
PS I’m no longer praying to my faulty abstracts of God. Thanks to all of the beautiful I AM statements in John’s gospel, I have new, rich, and right images of him.
PPS How do you help students grow in their understanding of God’s character and their identity in him? What practical resources do you use?
Last week I had the honor of speaking via live video to two different groups of seniors — one in Alabama, one in Arkansas. They were wonderful groups of students, eager to launch into life after college, and they asked great questions at the end!
As I prepared to be with both groups, there was so much I wanted to say to encourage them. I often feel the tension of wanting to “bring the real” (transitions are hard!) while also leaving students with deep hope (God is good, and He has so much good in store!).
My guess is you too are sharing parting words with your seniors (or will be in the coming days), and you may feel this tension. If you’re managing this tension right now or not sure what to say, here are some thoughts (from the archives) on what our students need to hear before they leave.
I’d love know, what’s one thing you make sure to share with students before they graduate?
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What’s your favorite topic to cover with students before they graduate?
What topic do you need more help developing?
Leave a comment below. I’d love to hear from you!
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One of the best ways to close the gap between what students expect and the reality they often face is to let them hear from those who have gone before them. Host an alumni panel! If you’re looking to move your efforts from mediocre to awesome, here’s a step-by-step guide.
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In my last post, I promised some exciting, FREE stuff would be coming your way! These weeks are prime time for helping college seniors anticipate the transition ahead, and I want to help you maximize your efforts.
In this short video, I describe an easy-to-replicate equipping exercise that you can try with your students as soon as this week.
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This is a key time to pursue college seniors for one-on-one conversations — to help them reflect upon their college experience as well as anticipate what’s ahead. Check out this short video for one practical tip you can use right away in your one-on-one meetings with students.
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Believe it or not, graduation is almost upon us! Let’s make these weeks count, especially with our graduating seniors. Here’s an article (from the archives) to get us thinking about how to best serve seniors in their last stretch. Don’t forgot to pop back to the blog here to share about one way you plan to honor the college seniors on your campus!
I’m so excited to have this guest post from author and young adults pastor, Austin Gohn. His book, A Restless Age, releases today! Austin does a fabulous job of bringing this ancient saint into our present cultural moment, and his book is one every person who works with twenty-somethings should pick up! See my endorsement below, grab your copy today, and enjoy Austin’s post!
I graduated from college, moved, got married,
and started my first full-time job all in the same summer.
I had a degree in intercultural studies, but I
moved right back to my hometown. It looked the same as when I left but
everything felt different. I was a
young adults pastor, but I felt like I was the one who needed a young adults
pastor. (I was barely 23-years-old!) I was trying to navigate multiple
transitions without much guidance on how to make sense of so much change at
once. And, on top of it all, I couldn’t even figure out how to get WiFi in our
I needed someone to guide me, someone to let
me know what I was feeling was normal, someone who had been where I was—and
survived. And, from seven years of experience working with young adults, I have
met many young adult who feel exactly the same way.
The Patron Saint of Young Adulthood
A few years into young adults ministry I read
Augustine’s Confessions for the
second time. It’s one-part memoir, one-part devotional, and one-part
theological treatise. And most of the book covers the span of time from his
late teens through his early thirties.
This time, as I read, I saw the book in a
different light. It was no longer just required reading for one of my freshman
courses. It felt like the most relevant book on the young adult years I had
In Augustine’s story, as told in his Confessions, we see what it’s like to be
a twenty-something—but from the inside. We see what it’s like to wrestle with
doubt, to try to break the habits we hate, to try to find where we belong, to
ride the rollercoaster of romance, and to nearly burnout only a few years into
the career we’ve prepared our whole lives to do. While much of the young adult
experience has changed since the fourth century, even more has remained the
Reading this book not only helped me
understand the young adults God had entrusted to my care, it helped me
understand myself. Augustine might be the patron saint of brewers, theologians,
vermin, sore eyes and printers, but he ought to be the patron saint of young
A Restless Age
That’s why I wrote A Restless Age: How Saint Augustine Helps You Make Sense of Your
Twenties. I wanted young adults to see how an ancient saint is more
relevant to their lives than many of the books out there geared toward young
adults. I believe that many of the young adults who take the time to wade
through Augustine’s Confessions will
come out saying, That’s exactly what I’m
experiencing. If this book leads more young adults to engage with
Augustine, it’s done its job.
Restless Age, I look for parallels between Augustine’s twenties—what psychologist
Meg Jay calls “the defining decade”—and the experience of twenty-somethings
today. In particular, I organize the book around what I call the five
open-ended searches of young adulthood:
The Search for Answers
The Search for Habits
The Search for Belonging
The Search for Love
The Search for Work
Augustine experienced the same five searches
in his twenties, even if they looked a bit different. He tried out cults,
churches, and total unbelief. He tried to quit habitual lust before it wrecked
his life. He lost friends and made new friends. He was in a long-term
relationship that ended with a devastating breakup. And, he moved multiple
times because of multiple career changes—all before his thirty-second birthday.
If you didn’t know I was describing a fourth-century theologian, you might
think I was talking about any number of young adults today.
I read Augustine’s Confessions for the first time when I was 19-years-old, but I
skimmed it and didn’t see what it had to do with my life. I needed a book that
could help me see Augustine the broken young adult, not just Augustine the
saint. I wrote A Restless Age to do
just that. Augustine might not provide much wisdom for how to get WiFi in your
tiny apartment, but he can help you make sense of your twenties—and possibly
even the rest of your life.
I’m curious, how have you seen “restlessness” manifest itself in the lives of the college students and recent graduates you work with? In what practical ways are you helping twenty-somethings in the “searches” Austin mentions above? Leave a comment below!